Why bullying in schools must be stopped seriously

By Nisa Nuraeni

(Mahasiwi UIN Bandung)

Bullying in schools is a very troubling phenomenon and has become a serious problem around the world. Although many consider it a normal part of children's social interactions, the reality is that bullying has a significant adverse impact on students' psychological, social and academic development. Therefore, there needs to be a serious response to bullying in schools, involving all parties, including teachers, parents, and the students themselves.

1.         Deep Psychological Impact on Victims

One of the main reasons why bullying must be stopped is its devastating psychological impact on victims. Victims of bullying often experience depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, and in some cases, suicidal thoughts. Children who are victims of bullying not only suffer in the short term, but they can also carry the trauma into adulthood, affecting their quality of life later in life. It not only hurts victims emotionally, but also mentally, which can ultimately damage their psychological health in the long run.

2.         Bullying Disrupts Academic Achievement

In addition to the psychological impact, bullying also affects students' academic performance. Children who experience bullying often feel uncomfortable or afraid to come to school, which leads to high absenteeism and reduced focus while studying

3.         Unhealthy School Environment

Bullying not only affects the victim, but it also damages the overall school climate. When bullying is left unaddressed, the school environment becomes unsafe and distrustful. Students who are not directly involved in bullying can also feel unsafe, worried that they might be the next target. In addition, the school's silence and indifference towards the issue creates a perception that violence is acceptable, which is contrary to the purpose of education which should be to instill moral values and mutual respect.

4.         The Moral Responsibility of Schools

Schools have a moral responsibility to protect every student from all forms of violence, including bullying. Educational institutions are not only places to learn, but also to shape students' character and personality. If bullying is allowed to occur without proper handling, schools fail in their role to build a responsible and empathetic generation. Therefore, schools should take proactive measures in preventing and handling bullying cases, through awareness programs, teacher training, and effective reporting mechanisms.

Bullying in schools is a serious problem that cannot be ignored. Its adverse impact on the victim, the school environment, and society as a whole is enormous. Therefore, it is very important for every party, especially schools and parents, to work together to stop bullying practices. A firm and sustainable response will create a safer school environment that supports students' optimal development. Thus, we can ensure that schools become a safe place for all children to learn and grow well.